I think we’d all agree that 2009 has been a tough year for everyone. Whether it’s dealing with RA or dealing with the financial crisis or just dealing with life…the stars just didn’t seem to align themselves properly this past year.I mean seriously, last New Year’s Eve, I got food poisoning. That should’ve given me a heads up…
In my own personal group of friends, we’ve had trying times. Financial muck, divorces, illnesses, breakups, mother in laws that just need to leave well enough alone, job losses. Nobody seems to be immune. I had a nice long chat with a good friend last night and she mentioned that she felt as though she was in the ocean being dragged by currents and beat up by waves and that she just couldn’t seem to keep her head above water. She told her mother this and her mother’s response was “but you’re still floating…and the waves will eventually push you back to shore although it might be a little further down the shore from where you started.” (To which she told me, “yes, until the sharks start attacking. We really are friends for a reason!!!)
I’ve been mulling it over and I think her analogy and her mother’s comment are the best way to sum up my year too. I have: sold a house, lost health insurance, had to leave a job because of health insurance, moved, started a new job, been on lots of medicine, been on not much medicine, been back on even more medicine, got promoted, had friend drama, lost several good friends, gained a few new ones, dealt with family issues, started running again, started having problems with my hands again. Quite an extensive laundry list. Sigh. And she’s right- everything is different now but different is ok.
I read earlier today that this New Year’s Eve is a blue moon. A blue moon typically happens every two years- it’s simply two full moons in one month. But a blue moon on New Year’s Eve is very rare- probably won’t happen again for 20 years. So, I’m setting my sights on making 2010 awesome in every way possible and am thinking, just maybe, that this is a sign that the stars are finally aligned. For starters, today I am NOT eating anything that could possibly be undercooked or cross-contaminated. A tad bit superstitious of me perhaps!
Happy New Year’s to you all- I hope that this new year (and new DECADE) brings you everything you’re looking for!